Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

20 AMAZING HOTELS YOU NEED TO VISIT BEFORE YOU DIE


Take a look at some of the most amazing hotels in the world.
Not everyone can afford holiday in one of these locations, however most of us would love to spend quality time with family or friends in these places. You might want to stay in the room underwater or perhaps enjoy your breakfast from the cave facing the sea.
Everyone will find something interesting

1. Ă„scher Cliff, Switzerland

Website: myswitzerland.com
Website: myswitzerland.com

2. Hotel Kakslauttanen, Finland

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Website: kakslauttanen.fi

3. Ladera Resort, St. Lucia

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Website: ladera.com

4. The Manta Resort, Zanzibar

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Photographer Jesper Anhede/ www.anhede.se
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Image credits: Genberg Underwater Hotels
Image credits: Genberg Underwater Hotels/

5. Rayavadee Krabi, Thailand

Website: rayavadee.com
Website: rayavadee.com

6. Shangri La, Paris

Website: shangri-la.com
Website: shangri-la.com

7. Hotel Ristorante Grotta Palazzese Polignano a Mare, Italy

Website: grottapalazzese.it
Website: grottapalazzese.it

8. Conrad Maldives, Rangali Island

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Website: conradhotels3.hilton.com
Website: conradhotels3.hilton.com

9. Panchoran Retreat, Bali

Website: panchoran-retreat.com
Website: panchoran-retreat.com

10. Hotel Ubud Hanging Gardens, Indonesia

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Website: hanginggardensubud.com
Website: hanginggardensubud.com

11. Attrap Reves Hotel, France

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Website: attrap-reves.com
Website: attrap-reves.com

12. Katikies Hotel-Oia, Greece

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katikies.com

13. Hotel Le Sirenuse, Amalfi Coast, Italy

Website: sirenuse.it
Website: sirenuse.it

14. Ice Hotel in Jukkasjarvi, Sweden

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Website: icehotel.com
Website: icehotel.com

15. The Cambrian Hotel, Adelboden, Switzerland

Website: thecambrianadelboden.com
Website: thecambrianadelboden.com

16. Homestead Resort and Spa, Utah, USA

Website: homesteadresort.com
Website: homesteadresort.com

17. Villa Escudero, Philippines

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Website: villaescudero.com
Website: villaescudero.com

18. Hotel-Restaurant Ă–schinensee, Switzerland

Website: oeschinensee.ch
Website: oeschinensee.ch

19. Astarte Suits Hotel, Greece

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Website: astartesuites.gr
Website: astartesuites.gr

20. Montana Magica Lodge, Chile

Website: huilohuilo.com
Website: huilohuilo.com

Tuesday, February 9, 2016

18 Ways To Be Successful That Aren’t Just Being Good At Your Job


Right now, it seems the only noble or worthwhile thing to do is to become an entrepreneur, a leader, a creative professional, or at least the most valuable person in the room. The problem is that not everybody is suited to do these things, and even fewer actually want to. But when we use our jobs as means of emotional validation – something we can work on to prove our inherent worth – this is what emerges. There are so many ways to measure a good life, aside from your day job, so here are a few ways to begin gauging the depth of your character beyond the implication of your title and the sum of your paycheck:


1. Do good work. Not what you think other people think is good work, but work in which you put forth so much complete, genuine effort that you are at peace with yourself at the end of the day.

2. Be the kind of person who actively, consciously seeks out the loving, kind parts of even the most undeserving, unkind people.

3. Always be open to the idea that you could be wrong, or your perspective could be misinformed, especially if you want to demand the same from others.

4. Learn to enjoy your life while not having to forego your responsibilities. Learn to find that enjoyment in them, not in spite of them.

5. Become the kind of person you think the world needs more of. Do what you often feel compelled to advise other people to do. Make the change you think needs to happen on the planet within your personal life.

6. Learn to live within your means, and happily so. Pay all of your bills, and save what you can. Relish in the kind of independence that brings.

7. Be the kind of person that other people feel better just for having been around. Learn how to comfort without placating, and love without losing yourself.

8. Be an incredible friend, one who is able to sustain a friendship despite major life changes, moves, or time. One who reaches out, makes phone calls, sends thank you cards.

9. Decide that what you have is enough – this is the only way to stop wanting.

10. Enjoy the holidays the way you did as a kid. Create your own traditions. Treat the people you love well.

11. Value your own opinions just a little bit more than you do other people’s. Don’t live your life trying to make sure everyone loves you but you.

12. Speak out when you see injustice, but do so by offering a better solution, not another personal attack just coming from a different angle.

13. Be the kind of person that your child self would be proud of.

14. Practicing loving people unconditionally – no matter what.

15. Learn to love yourself that way first.

16. Validate the emotions of the people who are closest to you. Doing so is an art form, and the essence of real intimacy (platonic or not).

17. Make time to do things you love, even if that something will never lead to a job, and even if you will never be the best at it.

18. Whatever you want to spend the most time consumed by – the family you already have, the family you want to build, the joy you find in your morning coffee or working on your novel-to-be for an hour each night – be someone who sticks to their priorities. Define your life with something you’re proud of, not just whatever you’re afraid not to have. 


Wednesday, June 24, 2015

7 things everyone should start doing in their 30s


The older you get, the harder it is to change your habits.
But in your 30s, there's still time to adopt new, positive behaviors.
To help you pinpoint the changes you'll want to make, we consulted recent Quora threads on this critical decade and highlighted the most compelling responses.
Read on for the best ideas.

1. Start laughing at yourself.

"Laugh at yourself, laugh at the absurdity of life, laugh at the goodness and the badness of every situation," writes Quora user Cyndi Perlman Fink.
Being able to find humor in your own struggles may be important for your overall health and happiness. Research suggests that people who are able to laugh at themselves are generally more cheerful.

2. Start appreciating your family and friends.

In your 20s, you may be so busy getting an education and launching your career that family and friends fall by the wayside. Your 30s are a good time to get back in touch and remember how much you love spending time with them.
As for family, "if you can find a way to make a connection with them, you may find some things in common with them, more than you expect," says Robert Walker.
And as for friends, Nan Waldman says: "Nurture them. Laugh with them. Be silly too. Contribute to their survival and enjoyment of life. Take the time every week to be in touch."

3. Start keeping a journal.

"Journal your life! Your written records will entertain and endear in your future," writes Mark Crawley.
You don't necessarily have to keep a secret notebook under your bed — a digital photo album with captions works just as well.

It's important to stick to a healthy weight in your 30s.


4. Start maintaining a healthy weight.

Several Quora users noted the importance of maintaining a healthy weight in your 30s. "Keep your weight at a normal level that's good for your body," writes Fink.
To do that, it's important to stay active and eat right. A growing body of research suggests that if you're looking to lose weight, your diet makes more of a difference than your exercise habits.

5. Start saving money.

One of the most important financial habits to start practicing in your 30s is spending less than you earn. "Make it a habit to live below your means," writes David Leon. "I know way too many people who live hand to mouth at 50 due to excessive spending at 30."
Bonus: If you start saving for retirement early, you'll reap the amazing benefits of compound interest.

6. Start chasing a big goal.

Up till now, you may have only dreamed about starting a family, buying a house, or earning an advanced degree. Now's the time to go for it.
"It's easy to put things off," says Bill Karwin. "But it's really true that time starts accelerating as you enter your 30s, and it keeps accelerating. The time that you'll get around to those dreams should be now."

7. Start learning from your mistakes.

You probably made plenty of mistakes in your 20s. That's OK — as long as you grow from your experiences. That requires accepting responsibility for what went wrong and understanding why it went wrong.
After all, as Amanda Frisk says, "everything in life is a way for us to learn, to be better."

Shana  Lebowitz

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

10 Ways to Fail at Being Your Own Boss



Whether you call yourself an entrepreneur, freelancer, self-employed or independent contractor, the fact is your dream of being your own boss is shared with a growing number of people. According to a recent survey by Freelancers Unionand Upwork (previously Elance-oDesk), 53 million Americans are self-employment. Another study by Intuit predicts that 40% of the US workforce will be freelancing by 2020.
All of those impressive stats and hopes aside, maintaining (what we’ll call) a “self-employed” career is no leisurely venture. Despite producing work of high quality, many people find themselves coming up short and, unfortunately, having to go back into a conventional job.
Self-employment comes with its fair share of hurdles, but, as with any other endeavor, failing shouldn’t stop you. As Richard Branson puts it, “The best developer of a leader is failure.” Though failures will inevitably happen in the pursuit of working for yourself, you can take steps to prepare yourself, so that you avoid as many of them as possible. Here are 10 reasons why you could fail.

Fear of Failure

Self-employment is the same as starting a new business, with just as many hurdles to clear to keep the doors open. But while some people can use fear of failure as the ultimate motivator, others succumb to the pressure and spend more energy on worrying than on planning for success.
Fear can even kill your career before it starts. So if you find yourself worrying too much, shift your attention to your career’s immediate demands instead of your projected failures. Your odds of success will increase.

Falling to the Competition

The pool of talent is growing, especially if you’re a freelancer, which makes some industries extremely competitive and difficult to get your foot in the door. Many freelancers apply to many, many job openings and never hear back. You might produce the same quality work as some of the top performers out there, but sometimes quality alone won’t be enough. You have to make an effort to stand out. 
There are many options for opening doors, including becoming a better salesperson, having better marketing or providing a unique product. If you are just starting out, you can even reach out to companies you’re familiar with and offering to do an assignment for free to prove your worth. Don’t forget about building your network too, as satisfied clients make great referral sources.

No Business Plan

Surviving a self-employed career requires more than just applying to job postings. It’s about setting a timeline of goals and finding ways to reach them. Just as with any other business, the best way to ensure success is to create a plan for your business. This will allow you to strategize and understand your objectives. If you have a clear vision of where you want to be, you’ll be able to recognize, tackle and move on from any failures that may occur.

Lack of Publicity

Your personal brand is your best marketing tool, and it’s your responsibility to build it up. As you know, there is no sales or marketing department that will promote your work. Though you may want to devote your time exclusively to your specialty, you also need to focus almost as much energy on making yourself known.
A cost-effective way to promote your personal brand is to create a blog or website to showcase your portfolio. Using social media sites like LinkedIn or Facebook can help you promote your product to the world. Remember to take your efforts offline. Attend industry events to build your network, and let your results speak for themselves through word-of-mouth marketing. Also, don’t forget your business cards! 

Procrastination

The world of self-employment is no place for procrastinators. In order to seek and secure work, you must be a self-starter. There’s also no boss to delegate tasks to you. So, if you’re not finding and doing your own work, you’re going to wash out. And although taking a creative break can be good, if you don’t meet the client’s needs, they’ll most likely move on to the next person.
Avoid procrastination by addressing the root of why you’re procrastinating. If it’s fear of failure, remember that you’re already failing by avoiding the work. Instead, be successful by actually starting it. If you’ve landed a job that is bigger than your skillset, take some time to broaden your skillset. That will give you the confidence you need to proceed.

Poor Prioritizing

Getting used to being your own boss can be tricky. You’re on no one else’s schedule except your own, so it’s understandable that you may first gravitate toward activities that are not essential to work. But this gravitation is why many people fail; they don’t prioritize.
The longer you put off your work, the less energy you’ll have when you most need it, and the worse your work quality will be. If you want your work to be sustainable and successful, it’s essential to keep a schedule and put your responsibilities at the top of it.

Not Seeking Family/Household Support

Life for the self-employed need not be lonely, but it can feel very solitary at times. That’s why family or household support is worth seeking. It helps maintain your mental wellbeing, especially in times of crisis. You might not think you need it now, but the romanticism of the lone entrepreneur isn’t worth the possibility of harming your relationships through prolonged absences. If you’ll be working from home, make sure everyone can make the adjustment when it comes to things like personal space and scheduling.

Not Understanding What to Charge

For many, determining your worth is a delicate but brutally consequential aspect of your career. It’s not much different than the stress-inducing conversation that precedes asking your boss for a raise. But we all know that if we don’t set a certain bar for ourselves, no one else will.
So, recognize what goes into accurately pricing yourself. If you’re new to the game, charging a lower rate than the competition can be a great way to build a client base. If you’re a seasoned pro, then charge like one. If you’ve been working with a company for a reasonable amount of time, you can begin to raise your rates. Also consider the size of the company you are doing work for, as well as the budgets of their individual projects.

Being Financially Disorganized

It may be hard to understand at times, but for most self-employed people having the books in order gets harder the more successful you become. Think about it. It’s easy to keep track of income and expenses when you are just starting out with a few clients. But as things begin to pick up, your accounting becomes something you do late at night when all your real work is done.
This can spell disaster when you stop paying attention to the expenses and costs of doing business. When you don’t have a clear picture of your financial health, you won’t know when you’re in trouble. Don’t let your finances get out ofcontrol, even if it means outsourcing the work to an expert.

Failing to Pay Quarterly Taxes

Speaking of expenses, many self-employed people overlook the tax situation that comes along with working for yourself. According to the IRS Self-Employed Individuals Tax Center, “As a self-employed individual, generally you are required to file an annual return and pay estimated tax quarterly.”
If you ignore the quarterly requirement and owe more than $1,000 in taxes at the end of the year, you may face fines and penalties. Though some people opt to pay the penalties come April 15 to hold on to precious revenue, it’s best to pay your estimated quarterly taxes via Form 1040-ES. As good as it may sound to hang on to the money now, it’s a lot more lucrative to not be forced into spending more than you would have had to later.
Starting and maintaining a self-employed career is like owning a business. Though it can afford you many freedoms, you will also face more demands. You will be your own C-suite employee of every stripe. But if you are prepared for what’s to come—including potential hiccups—then your chances of surviving by practicing your true vocation will drastically increase.
Sean Bradley